How to send a query request to SQL Server via tcp ip (with a general tool, such as Packet Sender) on the same PC?

The communication is ok. If I close SQL Server, I get this error:

Can not connect.

If I start it, I have no error message, but still not has any effect on the data base. I try to INSERT INTO a new record.

Server name: KI_OROS\SQLEXPRESS  
Database name: MyFirstDatabase 
Datatable name: MyFirstTable

I try to send this packet: INSERT INTO MyFirstTable (ID) VALUES (99)

I am totally beginner with SQL Server, what am I doing wrong?

Solution

You can't just connect to SQL Server over TCP and send queries as text.

Clients talk to a SQL Server over TCP using the Tabular Data Stream protocol. It starts with a handshake to negotiate what capabilities both support, then the client authenticates with the server ("logging in") and only after that you can send your SQL string, within an SQL batch.

How to implement that, see [MS-TDS]: Tabular Data Stream Protocol. But you don't want to implement that yourself.

My goal is to write a PLC program , which can communicate directly with the sql server

Either use a library that allows you to execute SQL statements from code, or let your PLC execute an HTTP request (which is trivial using plain text) to a service that accepts this message and executes the necessary SQL.