Regex match all words but not in quotes and not list of words

I would like to match all words but not in quotas or escaped quotas and no some words.

My current regex

\b(?![[^"]*"[^"]*"]|AND|OR|NOT\b)\w+/gm

Example phrase:

Visualise AND Visionary OR "Experiences Tester" OR (project AND manager)

My expected result is get following matches.

Visualise, Visionary, project, manager

But right now i receive Visualise, Visionary, Experiences Teste, project, manager

How to right a correct regex?

Thank you.

Solution

For the exact task described in the question, you can use

(?:\b(?:AND|OR|NOT)\b|"[^"\\]*(?:\\.[^"\\]*)*")(*SKIP)(*F)|\w+

Details:

(?:\b(?:AND|OR|NOT)\b|"[^"\\]*(?:\\.[^"\\]*)*")(*SKIP)(*F) - match and skip:
\b(?:AND|OR|NOT)\b - a AND, OR, NOT as whole words
"[^"\\]*(?:\\.[^"\\]*)*" - any string inside double quotes that can possibly contain an escaped double quote
| - or
\w+ - match one or more word chars.

Remember that backslashes must be double escaped inside PHP single/double quoted string literals, see the regex101 code snippet.