I'm designing a game where players are programmed bots competing in a programming contest. The bots can be programmed in any language - Java, Ruby, Python, C#. I'm looking for some way to transmit game data across the network or some way by which the game server can talk to the bots. What would be a better choice for this? Should i use XMPP or some other form of remote method invocation?
What you are descibing is not an RMI problem but a messaging one. I am sure there are several solutions you could use, and based on the limited knowledge of your application, I would say that XMPP is one of them. It is language agnostic and has libraries (and servers) available in most well supported languages.
Whether it is the best solution, I couldn't say, but I would think it is a viable one. It gives you the option for transmitting from point to point, point to many points, and a means for your game server to broadcast to all clients.