I want the license be general permissive, but:
Well, there maybe not an exactly equivalent license, but which license seems most fit do you think?
I don't think a generally used license with all these conditions exists.
Sounds like you want elements of both:
My advice however would be to select a commonly used license that is closest to what you want. Go to http://opensource.org/licenses/category and check out the "Licenses that are popular and widely used or with strong communities"
I'd guess LGPL would be the best fit (it doesn't satisfy your web-service requirements, but that's an uncommon requirement and hard to enforce anyway). LGPL is an excellent choice for libraries where you want the code of the library itself to stay open but don't mind the library being used in a generally permissive way.