I understand the subtle differences between require, load and autoload in Ruby, but my question is, how do you know which one to use?
Other than being able to "wrap" a load in an anonymous module, require seems to be preferred.
But then autoload allows you to lazy load files -- which sounds fantastic but I'm not sure practically what you gain over require
Is one method preferred over the other? Is there a situation where one method stands out?
Generally, you should use require. load will re-load the code every time, so if you do it from several modules, you will be doing a lot of extra work. The lazyness of autoload sounds nice in theory, but many Ruby modules do things like monkey-patching other classes, which means that the behavior of unrelated parts of your program may depend on whether a given class has been used yet or not.
If you want to make your own automatic reloader that loads your code every time it changes or every time someone hits a URL (for development purposes so you don't have to restart your server every time), then using load for that is reasonable.