I'm having a big problem using a Gmail account (with our company domain) and Nodemailer in a Node.js app. We use this one email to send approximately 1000 mails a day, and is going to continue to grow...
The problem is that some of these mails will arrive two days late (which is crucial for our app) and some other wont even be received by the destination user, and there's no way (at least that we know of) to know which users received the emails and which not since in Gmail all mails are marked as sent.
Its just an inconsistent freight train every day!
Non of the above have worked
Any one of you have any experience with a similar situation, or a known way to make a rock solid email account for massive sending?
I'm having a big problem using a Gmail account... and nodemailer... to send approximately 1000 mails a day
Using a Gmail account is your big problem.
Gmail isn't designed for this use case and it doesn't perform well under these conditions. Use something that's designed for high-volume programmatic mail delivery, like SendGrid or Mailgun, instead. Since you're already in the AWS ecosystem, SES might be a good match, too.
Nodemailer plays nicely with all of those services, and all three provide robust delivery metrics.