I'm just starting out with Tinkerpop and looking for the best way to achieve the following:
But understanding how to work on (simultaneously running instances of) scripts for graph traversal / interpretation / updating is already very valuable.
I prefer to use Python, but willing to dive into other things if needed :)
I would recommend spending some time getting familiar with Gremlin.
The Apache TinkerPop project includes support for Python. You can find details here [1] and can install using Pip. You may also find the information at [2] useful as well as the official TinkerPop docs.
[1] http://tinkerpop.apache.org/docs/current/reference/#gremlin-python