Friending a template parameter

Question

It's impossible to friend a template parameter because the standard disallows it. How might I get effectively the same thing then?

What I want is basically a type that is unusable outside the object which owns it. Why is rather beside the point but if you really must know, I'm trying to formulate a set of smart pointers that answer the problem of sharing an owned resource. Thus what I'm looking to do is something like so, if it worked:

template < typename T, typename Owner >
struct accessible_member
{
private:
  accessible_member() : val(T()) {}
  accessible_member(T const& t) : val(t) {}

  operator T& () { return val; }
  operator T const& () const { return val; }

  member_ptr<T> operator & () { return member_ptr<T>(val); }

  friend class Owner;
};

Thus a class can't hold this object as a member unless it declares itself the owner, and if it's silly enough to expose it as is, it will be impossible to use outside the class being so stupid.

Answer 1

You could use this, and then let all the owners inherit from Owner.

You could then use Owner class to wrap privately the methods used in accessible_member.
accessible_member is now accessible to Owner. Friend is not inherited, so you can supply (wrap) the necessary methods so all the classes that inherit Owner can use accessible_member.

It's a 2 level solution but it keeps the level of encapsulation.

template < typename U >
struct Owner 
{
   protected:
   accessible_member<U> newAccessible_member() { return accessible_member<U>(); }
   accessible_member<U> newAccessible_member(U const& u) { return accessible_member<U>(u); }
   .....

};

template < typename T >
struct accessible_member
{
private:
  accessible_member() : val(T()) {}
  accessible_member(T const& t) : val(t) {}

  operator T& () { return val; }
  operator T const& () const { return val; }

  member_ptr<T> operator & () { return member_ptr<T>(val); }


  template < typename U> friend class Owner;
};

Then you can use the accessible_member indirectly in structs that inherit from Owner using the protected methods:

struct Blah: Owner<int>
{
   void Dosomething() {
       accessible_member<int> blah= newAccessible_member();
   }
};

Look at the last example at Template Friends.