SQL Server query for name value pairs

Question

I'm new at creating an XML file using SQL server. I have 2 tables; 1 for people and the other with default settings for them.

Person table:

ABC   
DEF

Settings table:

Code           name                 value           
-----------------------------------------
Hair           Hair color           Brown                  
Hair           Texture              Curly             
Shoes          Shoe size            6            
Shoes          Shoe color           White    

How can I create an name value pair that looks like this? When I try to get the settings, I received an error about multiple records:

<PersonData>
  <Person>ABC</Person>
    <DefaultSettings>
      <Code>Hair</Code>
      <settings>
        <name>Hair color</name>
        <value>Brown</value>
      </settings>
      <settings>
        <name>Texture</name>
        <value>Curly</value>
      </settings>
      <Code>Shoes</Code>
      <settings>
        <name>Shoe size</name>
        <value>6</value>
      </settings>
      <settings>
        <name>Shoe color</name>
        <value>White</value>
      </settings>
    </DefaultSettings>
  </Person>
  <Person>DEF</Person>
    <DefaultSettings>
      <Code>Hair</Code>
      <settings>
        <name>Hair color</name>
        <value>Brown</value>
      </settings>
      <settings>
        <name>Texture</name>
        <value>Curly</value>
      </settings>
      <Code>Shoes</Code>
      <settings>
        <name>Shoe size</name>
        <value>6</value>
      </settings>
      <settings>
        <name>Shoe color</name>
        <value>White</value>
      </settings>
    </DefaultSettings>
  </Person>
</PersonData>

Answer 1

As told in my comment your given XML is not valid. The following query comes close to the output you requested. Hoping, that my magic glass bulb is still working:

DECLARE @personTable TABLE(ID INT IDENTITY, Name VARCHAR(100));
INSERT INTO @personTable VALUES
('ABC'),('DEF');

DECLARE @defaultSettings TABLE(Code VARCHAR(100),name VARCHAR(100),value VARCHAR(100));           
INSERT INTO @defaultSettings VALUES 
 ('Hair','Hair color','Brown')                  
,('Hair','Texture','Curly')        
,('Shoes','Shoe size','6')            
,('Shoes','Shoe color','White');

SELECT pd.ID AS [Person/@id]
      ,pd.Name AS [Person/@name]
      ,(
        SELECT ds.Code
              ,(
                SELECT ds2.name
                      ,ds2.value
                FROM @defaultSettings AS ds2
                WHERE ds.Code=ds2.Code
                FOR XML PATH('settings'),TYPE
               )
        FROM @defaultSettings AS ds
        GROUP BY ds.Code
        FOR XML PATH(''),TYPE
       ) AS [Person/DefaultSettings]
FROM @personTable AS pd
FOR XML PATH(''),ROOT ('PersonData')  

The result

<PersonData>
  <Person id="1" name="ABC">
    <DefaultSettings>
      <Code>Hair</Code>
      <settings>
        <name>Hair color</name>
        <value>Brown</value>
      </settings>
      <settings>
        <name>Texture</name>
        <value>Curly</value>
      </settings>
      <Code>Shoes</Code>
      <settings>
        <name>Shoe size</name>
        <value>6</value>
      </settings>
      <settings>
        <name>Shoe color</name>
        <value>White</value>
      </settings>
    </DefaultSettings>
  </Person>
  <Person id="2" name="DEF">
    <DefaultSettings>
      <Code>Hair</Code>
      <settings>
        <name>Hair color</name>
        <value>Brown</value>
      </settings>
      <settings>
        <name>Texture</name>
        <value>Curly</value>
      </settings>
      <Code>Shoes</Code>
      <settings>
        <name>Shoe size</name>
        <value>6</value>
      </settings>
      <settings>
        <name>Shoe color</name>
        <value>White</value>
      </settings>
    </DefaultSettings>
  </Person>
</PersonData>