Disable link after click sent through JavaMail

I am using java mail and activation to send email to the user. When user clicks forget password, a mail is to be triggered to user email with link for resetting the password.

I dont want user to use same link again, so when he clicks the link from email...the link should get disabled..

I am not sure how to do it...

String body = "<a href='resetpage.jsp'>Reset Password</a>";
Message message = new MimeMessage(session);
        message.setFrom(new InternetAddress(username));
        message.setRecipients(Message.RecipientType.TO,
            InternetAddress.parse(email));
        message.setSubject("Password Reset");
                    MimeBodyPart mbp = new MimeBodyPart(); 
        mbp.setText(body, "UTF-8", "html");

                    Multipart multipart = new MimeMultipart();
                    multipart.addBodyPart(mbp);

                    message.setContent(multipart);

        Transport.send(message);

From this code, i am getting the link in email..but now after user click the link in email..the link should get disabled..or i want to make sure..when user clicks the same link again it should not work..

Solution

If I understand you correctly you would like to enable the user to click a link that will achieve some functionality and thereafter invalidate the link to ensure that it cannot be reused for performing another change.

What I would suggest is:

Generate a token of some sort UUID.randomUUID().toString() would work nicely.
Store the token in the database with something to indicate who it was for and what function it would allow (Joe Soap, Password reset)
Send a URL to the user including ?token=[token_string_here]
When the page loads check the token exists and display the function you wish to make available.
When the code makes a change to the user / account, check that the token exists again before performing the action and then delete the token from the database