I am having trouble integrating two products, one of which is mine and they appear not to be talking. So I want to make sure they are communicating correctly. I had a look around for network monitor and found TCP Spy. This works but only shows 1 side of the conversation at a time (it has to run locally) I would ideally like to see both sides at the same time - but you can't run two copies of TCP Spy.
I've hit Sourceforge, but nothing seems to jump out - I'm a Windows developer, I don't have perl installed.
I've found a couple of others which are cripple-ware and totally useless, so I was wondering what do the SO guys use for watching the TCP conversation?
BTW - the 'not-written-here' product is not a browser.
I tried Wireshark and Microsoft Network Monitor, but neither detected my (and the program I am trying to communicate with) transfer. If I had a day to sit and configure it I probably could get it working but I just wanted the bytes sent and, more specifically, bytes received.
In the end I found HHD Software's Accurate Network Monitor software which did what I wanted it to, even if it was slight clunky.