Is there a property that tells if a form is deactivated by other form ShowModal procedure ?
EDIT : My program has a tray icon that brings to front the main form when it's clicked. I want to disable this when another window is shown in modal state. Because not doing so the main form (which is disable) will cover the modal form and completly block my program.
This behaviour is to be expected. When a modal form is shown, the other forms are disabled. You don't need to disable anything at all, the framework already handles it all for you. The beep is sounding because you are attempting to interact with a disabled form.
If you want to be notified when your window has been disabled, for any reason, not just because a modal form has been shown, listen to the WM_ENABLE message. To test whether or not your main form has been disabled. Do that by calling the IsWindowEnabled Win32 function.
Having said that I feel that it is likely you've not diagnosed the issue correctly. It sounds like you might be suffering from window ownership problems, which are common in Delphi 6. Or perhaps you are attempting to restore the application incorrectly from your notification icon code. Use Application.BringToFront for that.
The VCL's handling of modal dialogs seem very mixed up. When you show a system provided modal dialog, e.g. MessageBox, windows are disabled whether or not they are visible. However, the VCL only disables visible windows when ShowModal is called. What's more, you cannot use Enabled to test whether or not the window is disabled, you must use the IsWindowEnabled Win32 function.