I used to work with a custom data mapping library, and curently I'm trying to switch to a more widespread ORM solution.
After some experimentation, I refined my requirements to the following:
Could you please recommend one?
So far I have tried:
Subsonic 3.0
The one I currently like most, as it feels like a good balance between functionality and simplicity.
What I don't like:
Castle ActiveRecord
CastleAR with ActiveWriter add-in is almost what I need, but ActiveWriter's code isn't perfect (it seems, Nullable<> properties are not supported, and default one-to-many implementation doesn't work) and I couldn't find how to fix this code manually.
Darkside GeneratorStudio produces better code - correct definitions, one file per entity - though it uses cryptic names like RefclassIdRefclass. Personally I like Studio addin more than standalone app, but this certainly is a minor issue.
There're about twenty files bundled in the CastleAR distribution; though not a problem by itself, it feels like overweight. Won't I need too much esoteric knowledge about NHibernate and other stuff?
Fluent NHibernate
Widely recommended, but I wasn't able to find a code generator for it.
Have I missed something important?
A few thoughts on the things you don't like about SubSonic:
True, I agree this is very counter intuitive and I've never got to the bottom of why it is that way, but you can pretty easily modify the templates to fix this.
You'd think this might cause problems but I've yet to come across any and I've yet to see one reported on stackoverflow.
It's only invoked automatically if you edit the t4 files so really you only need an up-to-date schema available when you're making changes to the templates.