Gtk::Menu has
void Gtk::Menu::attach_to_widget(Widget& attach_widget,
GtkMenuDetachFunc detacher)
void Gtk::Menu::attach_to_widget (Widget& attach_widget)
wrapper methods for
void gtk_menu_attach_to_widget(GtkMenu *menu,
GtkWidget *attach_widget,
GtkMenuDetachFunc detacher)
But why are they protected?
If I want to make a pop-up menu on a widget, how, then, can I get access to it from the menu's activate call-back if not via these methods?
I guess it was protected because we misunderstood how it should be used. In the very latest gtkmm versions it is now public: https://git.gnome.org/browse/gtkmm/commit/?id=329d7c59bb3f75f79142600872221ae946c7c3a1
In the meantime, you can call the C function, using yourmenu->gobj() and yourwidget->gobj().