Take a look at this execution plan: http://sdrv.ms/1agLg7K
It’s not estimated, it’s actual. From an actual execution that took roughly 30 minutes.
Select the second statement (takes 47.8% of the total execution time – roughly 15 minutes).
Look at the top operation in that statement – View Clustered Index Seek over _Security_Tuple4.
The operation costs 51.2% of the statement – roughly 7 minutes.
The view contains about 0.5M rows (for reference, log2(0.5M) ~= 19 – a mere 19 steps given the index tree node size is two, which in reality is probably higher).
The result of that operator is zero rows (doesn’t match the estimate, but never mind that for now).
Actual executions – zero.
So the question is: how the bleep could that take seven minutes?! (and of course, how do I fix it?)
EDIT: Some clarification on what I'm asking here.
I am not interested in general performance-related advice, such as "look at indexes", "look at sizes", "parameter sniffing", "different execution plans for different data", etc.
I know all that already, I can do all that kind of analysis myself.
What I really need is to know what could cause that one particular clustered index seek to be so slow, and then what could I do to speed it up.
Not the whole query.
Not any part of the query.
Just that one particular index seek.
END EDIT
Also note how the second and third most expensive operations are seeks over _Security_Tuple3 and _Security_Tuple2 respectively, and they only take 7.5% and 3.7% of time. Meanwhile, _Security_Tuple3 contains roughly 2.8M rows, which is six times that of _Security_Tuple4.
Also, some background:
First I'd like to point out a little misconception here: although the delete statement is said to take nearly 48% of the entire execution, this does not have to mean it takes 48% of the time needed; in fact, the 51% assigned inside that part of the query plan most definitely should NOT be interpreted as taking 'half of the time' of the entire operation!
Anyway, going by your remark that it takes a couple of minutes to do a COUNT(*) of the table 'the first time' I'm inclined to say that you have an IO issue related to said table/view. Personally I don't like materialized views very much so I have no real experience with them and how they behave internally but normally I would suggest that fragmentation is causing its toll on the underlying storage system. The reason it works fast the second time is because it's much faster to access the pages from the cache than it was when fetching them from disk, especially when they are all over the place. (Are there any (max) fields in the view ?)
Anyway, to find out what is taking so long I'd suggest you rather take this code out of the trigger it's currently in, 'fake' an inserted and deleted table and then try running the queries again adding times-stamps and/or using some program like SQL Sentry Plan Explorer to see how long each part REALLY takes (it has a duration column when you run a script from within the program). It might well be that you're looking at the wrong part; experience shows that cost and actual execution times are not always as related as we'd like to think.