Is it possible to query serial port tx (send) pin status if it is active or not ?
For example when issuin break command (SetCommBreak) tx pin is set to active (low). I'd like to know when it is active or not. Thanks.
No. (at least not likely)
If you are using the "16550" family of UARTs, then I am confident that you can not query the serial port tx pin status. Of course, if you are using some new version or other UART family, maybe.
You can assume that the TX pin is in the SPACE state ('0', +Volts) whilst performing SetCommBreak(), but I suspect that is not enough for you.
If you are look to debug your code to know if a break occurred, you can short pins 2 & 3 on a 9-pin D-sub, thus loop backing the transmit to the receive. A paper clip will do. Your receive code would detect the incoming BREAK. Shorting to the incorrect pin does not cause a lasting problem with a conforming serial port, but be careful. Try this first with simple data, before testing BREAK condition.
If you have a "16550"-like UART.
You can put the UART into loop-back mode and see if you receiving you own outgoing BREAK signal. Its somewhat complicated in current PCs. Other UART type may support loop-back.