Is it possible to check if the visitor of my private Website liked my Facebook Fanpage? I found many posts for Facebook Iframe-Tabs but not for private Website owner.
You must have the user_likes permission, so you can query the likes the user already has.
And then using the javascript sdk you can achieve it by doing this:
function isPageLiked(YOUR_VALID_TOKEN) {
token = YOUR_VALID_TOKEN;
FB.api('/me/likes/YOUR_PAGE_ID', function(response) {
if(response.data.length){
//the user likes your page do something here
}
}, {access_token: token});
}